"Where You Left Them" is our weekly podcast.
We are back with Season 2, and we'll be releasing new episodes every Friday.
In every episode, we tell a real story submitted by a listener or one of our social followers. You'll hear our reactions and Harry's advice before we move on to discussing our recommended tool of the week. Finally, we'll answer your quickfire questions, so do submit them here or on our social media channels.
Listen here, watch the full episodes video on YouTube, and have your say too!
We’ll see how complicated life can be for everyone. We’ll see that there’s always hope. And we’ll see that there’s a lesson in every story for our own lives.
I'm Harry - I started dadhugsforyoursoul on the morning of 13th February 2025, an hour after having the idea. I've been through some extremely challenging times and am proud to have done 'the work' and come out of the other side, happier, healthier and more peaceful. Now I want to reach as many people as possible to help them to do the same. I believe strongly that time is not actually a healer - Work is. I built this entire channel, business and following on the principle that it provides everything that I so desperately needed back then - it's not passive advice, it's active healing and tools. Big Hug
I’m Emma and am so happy to be involved with dadhugsforyoursoul. Harry and I have staggered through some breakups together and I was fortunate to have benefited from his straightforward, unflinching advice just when I needed it. I think I’m still “doing the work” after some huge life changes so I’m right alongside and among you with all of it. I find your stories everything from heartbreaking to inspiring and familiar. So: know that you’re not alone - I’m honoured to be walking this path with you.
When relationships end, there's often a lot more than feelings at stake.
For many partners, women especially, there's a risk of being left in a financially precarious positition.
This story, sent in by listener Sally, takes us through that journey from pure trust and love to betrayal - and then into the details of what the fallout can mean not just emotionally, but financially.
She talks of her wonderful supportive friend and we find out if it is too late to recover her financial independence, as we hear from her at the beginning of that journey.
It's raw, frightening and sadly all too common.
The message here is that no matter how perfect everything is, maintain as much financial independence as you can - it's not unromantic, it's vital to your future security, whether things go south or not.
Then it’s on to questions of the week.
As we always say, if you’re having relationship problems, going through a relationship breakup or experiencing heartbreak, then know this: we are with you. Because you can and will survive, heal and thrive.
Everyone who appears on our podcast can take positive steps forward, and so can you.
Big Hug x
