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The No Contact Starter Guide

What it really is. Why it works. And how to get through the hardest days. Five pages, written for the days when holding the boundary feels impossible.

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For the women who keep going over the same conversation.

You are probably here because of something you read, or something you saw, and it landed close enough to the bone that you wanted to know who wrote it.

I write for women in the middle of a relationship that has left them questioning their own judgement. Women who are looking for the moment it turned. Women who are waiting for an apology that is not coming, and who know that, and are still waiting.

This is a place to work out what happened, and then to put yourself back together properly rather than quickly.

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What People Are Saying

Thank you for the truth… always delivered firmly but with kindness! And thank you for always guiding us to take the necessary (although difficult and painful) steps to let go of unhealthy relationships so we can live the life we deserve! Appreciate you and your support! You're a wise man! 😊

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