“Where You Left Them” is the podcast from dadhugsforyoursoul, the relationship repair and self-help phenomenon run by Harry on social media, with tens of millions of views each month.
dadhugsforyoursoul has helped thousands of people to solve their painful relationships, walk away from the wrong partner situations and - most of all - build themselves up with practical advice they can carry into more fruitful relationships in the future.
“Where You Left Them” makes those relationship stories and Harry’s advice even more real. This podcast gives you honest stories - extraordinary stories - and shares Harry’s insights, live.
In this, the last story of our first season, we meet Rosy; 43 years old, married with a family, living a nice, normal life. Except she isn’t, she’s living a lie and keeping a huge, devastating secret from her husband. Unforgiveable confessions flow and we are left feeling horrified for him. The huge twist that follows leaves everyone in shock, betrayal comes in many forms and this time it is Rosy on the receiving end. What do you do when you discover something you are not supposed to know, from a person you are not supposed to be with?
Listen to find out whether we manage to reach agreement on the most shocking listener submission yet...
What is a truth about your dating life that you had been pretending NOT to know while you were dating? This one made us BOTH uncomfortable (check out the body language!) and after some poorly chosen words, Emma admitted that she had tried to shape herself to “fit” the people who “liked” her, truly believing that no one would really want her. Yes, she’s come a long way hasn’t she? Harry, well he spent years pretending he wanted a relationship when he really didn’t - trying to convince himself first and then, convincing the women he dated. Thankfully he came to the realisation that this is a terrible way to live and he too, has come a long way!
This is a hard question and therefore a really good one to ask yourself! PLEASE let us know in the comments your own hard truths: they will not be as bad as ours (especially the ones we spoke about off-air!!)
This week we want YOU to join in with Emma and use our Healing Tool of the Week, the Physiological Sigh. The physiological sigh is a breathing technique that involves a double inhale followed by a long exhale, used to rapidly reduce stress and anxiety. This method utilizes the body's natural sigh reflex to clear carbon dioxide from the lungs, which helps to calm the autonomic nervous system, lower heart rate, and promote relaxation. Emma will be sighing away (and filming it) and if you can, we’d love you to give it a try and let us know how you get on. Here’s how to do it:
