“Where You Left Them” is the podcast from dadhugsforyoursoul, the relationship repair and self-help phenomenon run by Harry on social media, with tens of millions of views each month.
dadhugsforyoursoul has helped thousands of people to solve their painful relationships, walk away from the wrong partner situations and - most of all - build themselves up with practical advice they can carry into more fruitful relationships in the future.
“Where You Left Them” makes those relationship stories and Harry’s advice even more real. This podcast gives you honest stories - extraordinary stories - and shares Harry’s insights, live.
Welcome to the very first episode of Where You Left Them, the Dadhugsforyoursoul podcast with Harry and Emma. This podcast dives deep into the messy, heartbreaking, and sometimes unbelievable realities of modern relationships. It’s not therapy, but it is real: raw stories from real people, told honestly, with empathy, humour, and perspective.
In our first story, we meet Kate, who thought she was living the dream: twenty years with Rich, the partner who seemed like her perfect match. They had the house, the holidays, the reputation of being that couple. But in a single weekend, it all shattered.
What follows is an unflinching look at betrayal, self-doubt, and the struggle to rebuild a sense of self when everything you trusted collapses. Harry and Emma unpack the story in the studio.
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I feel Rich should have told her that he was in love with her sister years ago and I think he took the cowardly way out .
5 years is a long time to be betrayed for so no, I have no sympathy for Rich
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I doubt the text Rich sent was actually an accident.
I thought that too.
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I doubt the text Rich sent was actually an accident.
OMG I hadn't even considered that! Euw. You're probably right!!!
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What a great start to the podcast.Really loved Harry's response at the end.
What a great start to the podcast.Really loved Harry's response at the end.
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Wow, that was a crazy story. I really liked you honest, compassionate response to kate at the end. It is so heartbreaking that a human can influct so much pain in another and seemingly "get away with it". There is still a part of me that wants to see karma slap him in the face!
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5 years is a long time to be betrayed for so no, I have no sympathy for Rich
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Loved the relaxed format of the 2nd podcast. Still don’t have sympathy for Rich but am keen to get a hug from the merch.
I doubt the text Rich sent was actually an accident.
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If adding levity to the podcast seems unnecessary to me, because I found the first part quite light and at times funny, is there something wrong with me? (rhetorical question 🤪) Anyway, trying my luck and commenting: Rich (for whom I still feel a bit of sympathy).
Thank you for sharing this very interesting and at the same time very sad case. It always takes two to tango I believe. Kate gave up on herself with doing stuff she really didn't enjoy and was so obsessed to ignore the red flags, which are obviously difficult see, when you are busy to entertain the "perfect couple" image. Rich is a 100% no go with years of betraying her, without taking accountability for what he did...a very weak guy, low self-esteem and zero emotional intelligence. I really hope she will find her true self after going to this horrendous betrayal.🙏❤
I think Richard has been deceitful and dishonest to himself. he could do with doing some personal development on his own behaviours and beliefs. Perhaps buying the packs too. 5 years is a very long lie Richard.
I’m pretty sure I may be an anxious person who is emotionally unavailable. Am I doomed? Do I have twice the work to do?